Larry had class this weekend. He was extra busy before because he had finals this weekend. He goes to school one weekend a month, all day Saturday and Sunday. I was on my own for church. I'm the primary president and
usually try to get out on sacrament early to make sure everything is ready in the primary room and to take Ella to the little girls room before I take her to nursery but this
Sunday Ella was having a hard time and I didn't make it out early.
When I got there, I had one 6 year old, with developmental delays, who was missing, four classes that were missing teachers one of which was the nursery leader, a missing
counselor, a visiting high
counsel member and all the kids were way off because we moved the chairs around and they are still getting use to the change. Luckily the missing child was my first
councelor's son and so she grabbed a teacher and a couple of volunteers and went searching for him. My secretary went and held the fort down in nursery so I was able to drop off Ella but didn't have a chance to take her to the potty. I got word that the nursery leader was coming but that Ella was throwing the biggest fit anyone had ever seen.
Hmmmm... tell them I'll come as soon as I can turn the time over for Music.
Ten minutes later I hear word that Ella is still screaming but that the nursery leader was there. After I got things situated enough to start and the high
councilman spoke to the kids I headed out to save the nursery leader from Ella's wrath and to see if they found the missing 6 year old. Our new Music leader was on his own. They had found him and my second
councilor was going to be able to do the sharing time she had planned.
Phewwww!
I finally get into nursery to find Ella in the corner, laying under chairs, crying. By this time the sweet nursery leader had given up trying to coax her out of it. This is NOT normal
behavior for Ella. Well... royal fits are not totally out of character but she LOVES nursery and kept asking when she was going to be able to go. I pull her out and hold her. She cuddles right in. I'm trying to talk with her about what is wrong when I start feeling very wet.
Hmmm... I think I just found out what was wrong. She hadn't had an accident for at least a month anywhere so I brought her in regular panties. I was planning on taking her as soon as I could come in but she didn't make it.
Hmmm... what to do. I did bring extra panties but not an extra dress. Can the primary president take her kids out of primary and leave her new
counselor (she hasn't even been set a part yet) to go home? I went searching for at least a shirt. My new bishopric
counselor stops and we talk about all the callings we need to make. Even though Ella is standing next to me sopping wet I take the time to discuss this with him. I really don't want next week to be as crazy. I get away and the third person I ask, my last hope, had a little jumper in
their car. YEA! Not a whole outfit but it did the trick. I get her back in nursery but she was still hesitant so I promise that I'm just going to check on primary and that I'll come back and check on her. She's o.k. with that. Primary is doing fine but I was still missing a
Sunbeam teacher. I track her down, she asked to be released and figured she was done. I beg her to come just one more week. She agrees. I go back to check on Ella. She's doing o.k. I chat with the nursery leader for a minute when
Caden's teacher sticks her head in the door and says
Caden's nose is bleeding. He's in the bathroom. I open the men's room door
holler at him. Luckily I didn't have to go in... he comes out with blood all down his shirt. His nose is still gushing and he's holding a very wet piece of tissue. By this time I'm laughing....
Caden's skin is very sensitive and his nose randomly bleeds about once a month. He's use to it. I find his shoes, get Ella out of nursery and drag Megan out of her class. By this time church is almost over and a few people are starting to get out.
Caden is so embarrassed and is trying to hide while I am trying to not get bloody. People are still trying to stop me in the halls so I can address
thier concerns... We did get out fairly quickly but wow what a day!
I've decided two things. One, kids are made with two. Two are
definitely supposed to raise them! I could never make it as a single mom. Boy, I missed Larry! Two, prayers work. For a few weeks I didn't really have
counselors. I use to pray that everything would go well
especially when Larry was gone. There was one week that I knew I wouldn't have
counselors. I was on my own and obviously had to conduct and do sharing time. It was Friday and Ella started to show signs of pink eye. What was I going to do? Who could fill in? I prayed, and the next day Ella's eye was clear. Everything went relatively smooth that
Sunday. And now, I have a great
counselor and secretary. When things went wrong and I had the help to keep primary running. It amazes me that the Lord can use people like me, (I'm pregnant, have young kids, and one
Sunday a month I'm a single mom), and still have his church run relatively smoothly. It amazes me how much he has helped me
full fill my calling when I couldn't do it by myself. If anyone actually makes it through this blog.... sorry I'm so wordy. I tend to like short messages cute pictures. I don't have any pictures and I'm
definitely wordy today!